Andreja, a captivating Companion in Starfield, can be more than just a trusted ally; she can become your romantic partner and ultimately your spouse. This detailed guide will walk you through all the steps to cultivate a romantic relationship with Andreja, making her your girlfriend, and sealing the union with marriage to achieve the cherished Starcrossed Achievement. Importantly, the gender of your character does not affect these relationships, and you can freely change it at “Enhance” shops located in major cities.
Andreja Relationship Guide
Earning Andreja’s Affection
- Travel alongside Andreja whenever the opportunity arises.
- Accumulate Likes from Andreja during dialogues (displayed in the top right corner). She appreciates “sassy/feisty” options (usually the 2nd or 3rd dialogue choice), values strength without unnecessary bloodshed, and dislikes choices driven solely by monetary gain. It’s wise to create a Quicksave before engaging in conversations. If Andreja expresses Dislike, reload the Quicksave and select alternative dialogue options.
- Avoid attacking civilians or friendly NPCs.
- Whenever Andreja requests a conversation, oblige and choose supportive responses (usually one of the top two choices).
- Whenever [FLIRT], [ROMANCE], or [COMMITMENT] options are available, select them during dialogues. These options are presented only during specific conversations.
Completing Andreja’s Relationship Mission
- After accumulating sufficient Likes and progressing through Andreja’s dialogues, she will offer the Miscellaneous Mission “Divided Loyalties.” Accepting this mission will elevate your relationship status to “Andreja considers you a friend.” This typically occurs after approximately 40 hours of gameplay if you consistently earn Likes. Excessive Dislikes can slow your progress.
- Complete the mission “Divided Loyalties.”
- At the conclusion of the mission, when conversing with Andreja back at the lodge, select the 1st dialogue option “[ROMANCE] I’ll always be here for you. I love you,” rather than the “Friendship” option. This step officially makes her your girlfriend.
Proposing Marriage
- Continue to journey together with Andreja as your active Companion. After 30 to 90 minutes of gameplay, she will initiate another conversation. In this dialogue, choose “[COMMITMENT] I think it’s time we make this official.” Andreja will readily accept your proposal for marriage.
- Note that marriage cannot occur immediately. Andreja requires some time for preparations, so continue adventuring together.
Initiating the Marriage Quest
- Maintain Andreja as your active Companion and continue your travels. After 2 to 4 hours of gameplay, Andreja will approach you for another conversation. This marks the beginning of her Marriage Quest, titled “Commitment: Andreja.”
- Progress through the quest objectives, which eventually lead to Planet Shoza II. There, Andreja will present you with a marriage gift, and you will officially become a married couple. There is no official wedding ceremony; it’s an intimate moment shared between the two of you. The Marriage Gift can be placed in any of your Outposts.
- Your relationship status will transition to “Andreja considers you a committed partner,” solidifying your union and unlocking the Starcrossed Achievement.
Marriage Perks
While Starfield does not include “Romance Cutscenes,” there are subtle changes to your interactions with your spouse:
- Your spouse will exhibit increased happiness upon seeing you and engage in more pleasant dialogues.
- When you sleep in a bed, whether in your lodge or on your ship, Andreja will wake up beside you and share verbal comments about the enjoyable moments you both shared. You can sleep in the bed multiple times to hear all her responses, though there are no explicit scenes.
- Your spouse will frequently pick up items and offer them to you.
If you ever wish to conclude the marriage, you can do so by conversing with Andreja, discussing the relationship, and choosing to end the Commitment. This will allow you to explore relationships with other Companions.
For more relationship tips, discover how to romance Sarah Morgan.